Something we learned this week was about genograms. A genogram is kinda like a family history pedigree on steroids, the steroids coming in, in the form of details about almost every person in your extended family from you to your great grandparents. It was super interesting because our teacher taught us about his own genorgram. In his he told us patterns he started seeing starting at his great grandparents on down and by the time he got to him he realized that the same tendency was in him!
So I did a quick one of just my grandparents and parents and saw how some of their tendency came out in me but in more of a mix. For example this was how quick it was, this may not be accurate seeing as I have just done this off of rumor has it.. this is how they are.
SO..
Grandpa Romney            Grandma Romney                     Grandpa Farnsworth     Grandma Farnsworth
 (Submissive)                    (In Command)                            (In Command)              (Submissive)

                           Mom                                                                                 Dad
                 (Both at different times)                                             (In command)
               Again just quick assumptions                                      but will take time to listen to your
               More in a PLEASE take this herb it will help you        opinion and take it into account.
               Not in a bad way, in a good way.

                                                                               Me(Alone)
                                                                               In command
                                                                               Me (with Spouse)
                                                                               More submissive.
Now really, now that I am married it's the most healthy relationship I have ever been in, and so I see my self acting differently then in previous relationships, and i think its because there is more equality happening. However I do remember in high school an interesting fact. Everytime I was single I was happy with my self and taking charge of my life. But right when I would get a boyfriend I would all the sudden fill in this submissive almost younger role, and I often was even older. This is something that I find interesting that makes me want to explore how them women in my family we're when They we're single.